No one likes to believe that suffering is the result of their own mental chaos or that they could be sabotaging their own success. It’s a lot easier to believe we are random, innocent victims. But that’s usually not the case…
I do believe sometimes we have burdens to bear because we're helping or demonstrating a lesson to others. But most of the time, our suffering is the result of our negative or dysfunctional thinking.
A negative or limiting belief, creates a negative or limiting vision, which inspires negative or limiting actions, which produce negative or limiting results.
As far as analytical equations go, it’s a pretty simple one. Alas, the human condition is slightly more complex. So how does self-sabotage actually play out?
There are a lot of possible causes:
And it is this last one - self-hate - that offers some very revealing insights. It’s frequently the driver for some of the other causes on the list. And it’s always the most shocking scenario to those affected by it. Most people usually reject the possibility outright, in complete denial of the reality.
Let me give you some common examples I see regularly:
So how could this possibly be, you wonder? How does it come about?
Let me know what you think below. Then on the next post, I’ll reveal what I have found, and give you some shocking examples that will astound you. So don't miss the upcoming post. It's about to get real hot in here!
But first, your turn…