My grandfather divorced my grandmother. As far as I know, she never went out on another date. One of her sisters never married. The other one divorced. My parents divorced when I was a baby. My two aunts are both divorced.
Do we see a pattern here?
The pattern in my family is superhero women, who can get by without men. And that’s the kind of pattern that affects kids and gets carried over to the next generation. Unless you are aware of it. And consciously break it.
Have you given any thought what the generational patterns are in your family? Things like abuse, alcoholism, infidelity, and the example above have a nasty tendency to repeat, generation after generation.
Of course, so do healthy relationships, positive affirmations, and love.
So what patterns are you repeating? And causing to be repeated?