One of the highest values you can bring to any relationship is to simply be real. Real relationships are built on truth and trust.
That mean sometimes you have to tell people things they don’t want to hear. And sometimes you have to listen to things you don’t want to hear. But if they are said with love and for the highest good, they are helpful.
It’s also important that you don’t try to appear to be someone you’re not. Adopt a disguise and the universe will reveal you anyway. The only person you deceive is yourself.
By all means, work on yourself and grow a little each day. But don’t try to be anyone else or pretend to be something you’re not.
Be you. It’s enough.