Do you still talk about bad ex-lovers, personal slights, or money you lost in business deals in the past? What you may think is entertaining to others, or is simply expressing your frustration, is actually just you being a victim.
Do you believe that your financial challenges are the result of economic factors, government programs, crooked partners, your boss, or other outside factors? If so, you are seeking to be victimized.
Do you ever talk about abuse you endured, things that were withheld from you, absence of love or affection, etc. If you are talking about them with anyone other than a professional therapist, then you are wallowing in victim-hood.
Do you think I’m being unreasonable, and that some of the things I said above don’t really apply to you because you have extenuating circumstances? Congratulations, you’re a professional victim!
Give this some real thought. Then you can argue in the comments below if you want. But I don’t think you’ll win…