Comments on: The Real Reasons You Act the Way You Do http://www.randygage.com/blog/the-real-reasons-you-act-the-way-you-do/ Success Tips, Marketing Strategies, Prosperity Insights and More... Mon, 15 Mar 2010 17:17:49 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Randy Gage http://www.randygage.com/blog/the-real-reasons-you-act-the-way-you-do/comment-page-1/#comment-6691 Randy Gage Tue, 24 Nov 2009 15:32:25 +0000 http://www.randygage.com/blog/?p=781#comment-6691 Those are two great questions for us all to ask ourselves. -RG Those are two great questions for us all to ask ourselves.

-RG

]]> By: Enrique http://www.randygage.com/blog/the-real-reasons-you-act-the-way-you-do/comment-page-1/#comment-6688 Enrique Tue, 24 Nov 2009 13:21:15 +0000 http://www.randygage.com/blog/?p=781#comment-6688 and be Right. There are a couple of books who help me deal with my self-sabotage beliefs. They are both by Debbie Ford,"The Dark Side of the Light Chasers and Why Good People Do Bad Things." and be Right.
There are a couple of books who help me deal with my self-sabotage beliefs. They are both by Debbie Ford,”The Dark Side of the Light Chasers and Why Good People Do Bad Things.”

]]> By: Enrique http://www.randygage.com/blog/the-real-reasons-you-act-the-way-you-do/comment-page-1/#comment-6687 Enrique Tue, 24 Nov 2009 12:38:26 +0000 http://www.randygage.com/blog/?p=781#comment-6687 I start a fight so I can be seen and to feel important. I start a fight so I can be seen and to feel important.

]]> By: Rocky Bradley http://www.randygage.com/blog/the-real-reasons-you-act-the-way-you-do/comment-page-1/#comment-6686 Rocky Bradley Tue, 24 Nov 2009 06:44:39 +0000 http://www.randygage.com/blog/?p=781#comment-6686 You are Not Alone and You will Reach all the Success you Deserve, just let Go! It will in time come Naturally! All the Best and never forget You Are Never Alone! Cya, Rock You are Not Alone and You will Reach all the Success you Deserve, just let Go! It will in time come Naturally!
All the Best and never forget You Are Never Alone!
Cya,
Rock

]]> By: Alf Andersen http://www.randygage.com/blog/the-real-reasons-you-act-the-way-you-do/comment-page-1/#comment-6685 Alf Andersen Tue, 24 Nov 2009 05:33:33 +0000 http://www.randygage.com/blog/?p=781#comment-6685 Fear of being insignificant and to cover my own shortcomings. Fear of being insignificant and to cover my own shortcomings.

]]> By: Bernice http://www.randygage.com/blog/the-real-reasons-you-act-the-way-you-do/comment-page-1/#comment-6682 Bernice Mon, 23 Nov 2009 22:58:02 +0000 http://www.randygage.com/blog/?p=781#comment-6682 "Are you one of the people who constantly make big issues out of little things? " No, I am pretty easy going. It wouldn't bother me if someone squeezed the toothpaste from the bottom of the tube :) "Are your relationships roller coaster rides of breathtaking highs and desperate lows? Have you ever given thought to the real reason for this?" no...I am not on a relationship roller coaster ride. A big thing that isn't small stuff can't be ignored though. I really like stability so putting myself in some temporary chaos is not easy. A place to live, a gym to workout in & eating healthy helps. “Are you one of the people who constantly make big issues out of little things? ” No, I am pretty easy going. It wouldn’t bother me if someone squeezed the toothpaste from the bottom of the tube :)

“Are your relationships roller coaster rides of breathtaking highs and desperate lows? Have you ever given thought to the real reason for this?”
no…I am not on a relationship roller coaster ride. A big thing that isn’t small stuff can’t be ignored though.
I really like stability so putting myself in some temporary chaos is not easy. A place to live, a gym to workout in & eating healthy helps.

]]> By: Kathleen Caldwell http://www.randygage.com/blog/the-real-reasons-you-act-the-way-you-do/comment-page-1/#comment-6681 Kathleen Caldwell Mon, 23 Nov 2009 22:32:47 +0000 http://www.randygage.com/blog/?p=781#comment-6681 Randy, This sooooo used to be me! Just two days ago,I caught myself in church, of all places, picking on my brother for wearing sunglasses on his head! Or my friend because she's always cold. The good news is, that as soon as I did it, there was a prickly feeling in my heart and I knew what I was doing was wrong, uncalled for and mean. To them and ME. It is the vestige of a destructive, inherited habit. I am also in the process of stopping/deflecting the unnecessary criticism coming in my direction. Unfortunately, it is my husband doing the "picking". I politely ask him to stop being critical or stop the conversation all together. If that doesn't work, I leave the room. Wow, what a great feeling! Randy,
This sooooo used to be me! Just two days ago,I caught myself in church, of all places, picking on my brother for wearing sunglasses on his head! Or my friend because she’s always cold. The good news is, that as soon as I did it, there was a prickly feeling in my heart and I knew what I was doing was wrong, uncalled for and mean. To them and ME.
It is the vestige of a destructive, inherited habit. I am also in the process of stopping/deflecting the unnecessary criticism coming in my direction. Unfortunately, it is my husband doing the “picking”. I politely ask him to stop being critical or stop the conversation all together. If that doesn’t work, I leave the room.
Wow, what a great feeling!

]]> By: Jhanna Dawson http://www.randygage.com/blog/the-real-reasons-you-act-the-way-you-do/comment-page-1/#comment-6680 Jhanna Dawson Mon, 23 Nov 2009 21:58:28 +0000 http://www.randygage.com/blog/?p=781#comment-6680 Randy, after I left my husband I spent months evaluating how I ended up in a relationship as bad as ours was to begin with. As shitty as a person as he was to me, he was just being 'him'. What was more important was taking responsibility for MY part and continuing to dance in the relationship with him. I now recognize that in all situations, if I choose to stay in it, there's something I'm getting FROM it. Healthy or not. I'm SO VERY grateful that these days, I am able to step back and say, 'what am I getting from this? What is it feeding?', and go from there. In Gratitude, Jhanna Dawson Randy, after I left my husband I spent months evaluating how I ended up in a relationship as bad as ours was to begin with.

As shitty as a person as he was to me, he was just being ‘him’.

What was more important was taking responsibility for MY part and continuing to dance in the relationship with him.

I now recognize that in all situations, if I choose to stay in it, there’s something I’m getting FROM it. Healthy or not.

I’m SO VERY grateful that these days, I am able to step back and say, ‘what am I getting from this? What is it feeding?’, and go from there.

In Gratitude,

Jhanna Dawson

]]> By: Karina Kazakhstan http://www.randygage.com/blog/the-real-reasons-you-act-the-way-you-do/comment-page-1/#comment-6679 Karina Kazakhstan Mon, 23 Nov 2009 18:57:40 +0000 http://www.randygage.com/blog/?p=781#comment-6679 "we don't have friends, we don't have enemies, we all meet only teachers...." “we don’t have friends, we don’t have enemies, we all meet only teachers….”

]]> By: Dawn http://www.randygage.com/blog/the-real-reasons-you-act-the-way-you-do/comment-page-1/#comment-6678 Dawn Mon, 23 Nov 2009 18:53:23 +0000 http://www.randygage.com/blog/?p=781#comment-6678 It is true that until you identify the real reasons, you cannot change your behavior. Also you can only change other people by changing and controlling the way you react to them! It is true that until you identify the real reasons, you cannot change your behavior. Also you can only change other people by changing and controlling the way you react to them!

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