The Real Reasons You Act the Way You Do
By Randy Gage
Last post we talked about perspective and I asked you to evaluate yours. Did you really do it?
Are you one of the people who constantly make big issues out of little things? Are your relationships roller coaster rides of breathtaking highs and desperate lows? Have you ever given thought to the real reason for this?
You don’t really fight because he leaves the toilet seat up, she squeezes the toothpaste in the middle, or they left the lid loose on the peanut butter. People who are in relationships where they fight all the time are actually getting their needs met.
Needs like:
Feeling unworthy;
Getting their insecurity pandered to;
Creating drama;
Feeding their hero complex; and,
And many other things like these.
So if you found that you don’t have perspective in some areas – give some thought to the real reason.
-RG
