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Making Your Relationships Work

Every relationship takes work.  And sometimes I think the better they are, the more work they take.  Deep relationships like marriage take a tremendous amount of work.  Continuously.  

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The Real Test if You’re a Victim

So I’ve been suggesting in the last couple posts that perhaps you’re still holding on to victim-hold.  And more than a few of you have acknowledged that in the comments.  But what about the rest of you?  Am I just projecting my victim-hood issues on you?  Or are you still mired in victim consciousness?   Let’s find out….

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Your Sacred Circle…

“You can’t handle the truth!”  Remember when Jack Nicholson shouted that at Tom Cruise in the movie?  How true that is for so many people.

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Relationship “Victims”

I had some real fun reading your replies to yesterday’s post on the relationship seminars you’d lead.  Quite an interesting line up to choose from!

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Selfishness In (or Versus) Relationships

I believe a sane person accepts him or herself, and is comfortable in his or her own skin.  And they are also comfortable with being selfish, and ensuring that their own needs are met.  They understand that if they sacrifice themselves for others, they will diminish and degrade themselves, and ultimately be of use to no one.

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