Comments on: Are You Hanging on to Victim-hood?

By: Mark Schlenker

Mark Schlenker — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 13:09:24 +0000

.. a really great post, Randy ! .. a few great ideas in those lines .. thanks

By: Steve

Steve — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 21:24:41 +0000

This Post is great. Overcoming obstacles is what I do. Creating them is what I now renounce. I now help others.
My new mantra is “I am a role model of Prosperity.”
Steve

By: gene

gene — Wed, 04 Nov 2009 01:14:22 +0000

Now, I am ready to take full responsibility of my life and create abundance in my life in all aspects…

GENE

By: Carmen

Carmen — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 18:11:40 +0000

For me it’s definitely that I don’t think I’m worthy. I’ve been thinking over the recent events in my life and came up with a case in point. This weekend I spent my last night with my European boyfriend, (I’m going back home and leaving him behind), and he booked a 4-star hotel before I arrived but checked out because he said it was lousy. He then asked me if I wanted to go to another one or go and stay at my relative’s spare apartment. I said I didn’t mind and that he could choose. I said that knowing that the apartment didn’t have a proper bed, just hard cushions on the floor. He chose the apartment and I had a lousy night’s sleep. What I really wanted was to go to another hotel and obviously he was prepared to pay for it. Obviously I didn’t think that I was worth it though. Wow!

By: Ade

Ade — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 16:53:04 +0000

Ok fine, we know the problem. Whats the solution? I have tried writing down self limiting beliefs I discovered on a sheet of paper and burning them like a burning bowl ceremony…
Sometimes I wonder if those are real self-limiting beliefs or maybe I made em up..
But seriously, how does someone let go of these things?

By: Jodi

Jodi — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 14:02:58 +0000

Thanks for the recommendation, found it on Amazon, looks good and have ordered it. Neutral I think is where I’ve been for too long. Looking forward to reading it.
Thank you!!

By: Bernice

Bernice — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 13:39:18 +0000

“Are you creating a hero’s journey by manifesting extra challenges in order to overcome feelings of insecurity and unworthiness? ”
I do create challenges for myself and accept that I always will, but the “extra challenges”- yes sometimes I make things harder than they need to be. And yes, I have/had feelings of insecurity and unworthiness. I also have self-assurance so maybe if I recognize the bad feelings and the areas they are in, I can change them to positive. Thank you for the reminder not to wallow in victim-hood.

By: Sarah Saint Amour

Sarah Saint Amour — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 12:36:31 +0000

May I say how grateful I am to have a community of “Developing- Thinkers” here. It brings such peace to me to know there is a place to uncover challenges and work them through with amazingly supportive minds.

What a blessing!

By: Scott

Scott — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 12:21:16 +0000

I thank you for that vision…now it time for me to stop talking and take action…which in my opinion is where most, including me, disconnect…like oh shoot, I have to DO soemthing now?

The past two blogs from you have DEFINITELY woken me up..thanks.

By: Randy Gage

Randy Gage — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 12:15:11 +0000

Okay being aware is a very important first step. I’m holding a vision for you (and several others of you who commented) of making a breakthrough on this. Next post I’ll talk about how this manifests as financial challenges.

-RG