Archive for May, 2010
Memorial Weekend Mental Aerobics…
Tonight begins the Memorial Day weekend here in the U.S. I’m on my way to a softball tournament in Minneapolis with the team, so figured this was a good time for another mental aerobics. This is a good exercise to improve your vocabulary and English skills for those of you that don’t speak English as your first language. (Like you guys in Miami!) And it’s a great way to improve your lateral thinking processes.
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Money as a Measuring Stick
I was sitting at the airport in Orange County, talking with some speakers who were traveling back on the same flight as I was. One of them asked me how things were going. I replied that I was doing great. Then she asked a simple enough question…
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Getting Your Needs Met
When I was doing my coaching program, I said in a lesson, “But I do think you have a responsibility for yourself to set standards to ensure your needs are being met, and the relationship is healthy for you.” That drew a protest from Dr. Ellyn Bader.
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Are You Ready to Be Amazing?
Boy you’re a tough crowd! A while back I was blogging from my sickbed and Traian took me to task for it, writing, “Sick, again? What is wrong with you? Even with your higher consciousness, you get sick more often than most people I know …I haven’t got a serious cold in 2 years.” David added, “Why are you sick Randy? What experience did you wish to attract into your realty?”
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Bringing Value to Relationships
Last post we talked about relationships and it created quite a stir. It all started when I talked about how I evaluated my own. I mentioned that I didn’t “let in” certain types of people, and that if people didn’t continually bring value to my life, I stopped including them in it.
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Screening Your Relationships
“You’ve got to be kidding? The first thing that comes to my mind when I read this is, ‘If I were single I’d make sure I didn’t fall in love with someone like this!’
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What Are You Obsessing About?
I told you in the last post that the difference between people with empty lives, versus people with meaningful ones, is simply the things they choose to have obsessions about.
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What Kind of Obsessions Do You Have?
In yesterday’s post I stated that in order to have a great deal of success with something, you have to have an obsession for it. Did that sound drastic to you?
A lot of people think obsessions are bad and should be avoided at all costs. I don’t agree. Everyone has obsessions.
The difference between people with empty lives versus people with successful, meaningful ones, is simply the things they choose to be obsessive about.
Or you could write it this way:
Successful people have positive obsessions. Failures have negative obsessions. Which ones do you have?
-RG
P.S. I am changing planes in Hong Kong. Praying for peace in Bangkok. Please hold a positive vision.
Are You Obsessed?
In yesterday’s post I said that your assignment was not a decision, but a discovery. And I think what you do for a living gives you clues. That doesn’t mean, however, that if you are currently working at Dairy Queen as a cashier that your future is in ice cream. (But it might be.)
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Work and Your Assignment in Life
Last post I told you that the Universe wouldn’t give you your next assignment until you are overqualified for this one.
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