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Archive for April, 2010

The Way You Look at the World

It was a beautiful South Florida Saturday morning.  I’m on my way to the car wash, and Van Morrison is belting out “Domino” on my stereo.  There’s a black pickup truck driving alongside me, with the back window down and a puppy poking his head out.

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Helping Everyone But You

In yesterday’s post we discussed the merits of trying to convince the young guy he would probably manifest his own Alzheimer’s disease.  And many of you correctly took me to the woodshed for my response.

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What Would You Do?

Back when I was doing my coaching program I got a great question from Art Jonak about his friend.  The friend was only 32 years old, but was certain he was going to develop Alzheimer’s.

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Being a Victim in Bad Relationships

Last week we looked at ways we may feed our victim mentality by staying sick or broke.  Do you think you could do the same thing to threaten a healthy relationship?   Or prevent you from ever getting one?  

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Are You are Programming Yourself for Poverty?

We’ve been looking at ways we may stay mired in victim-hood.  We’ve used sickness as the example, and I questioned when things like braces, wheelchairs, and medicines help us – and when they might hold us back.  

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Throwing Off The Shackles

In yesterday’s post we talked about wheelchairs, braces, medication, therapy, and similar things.  I asked you when do we really need them, and when are they actually keeping us sick.  Did you really think about that?  

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Letting Go of Lack

So how do we really let go of lack?  And break patterns that have often been practiced over our entire lifetime?  

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The Cause Behind a Victim Mindset

What do you have to do, to release the victim mentality forever?  It’s a very intriguing question.

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No Longer Needing to be a Victim

We’ve been talking about manifesting challenges; fighting the forces of evil, and overcoming obstacles that could make us feel noble.  I asked if this was just another way for you to hold onto being a victim.  And why would anyone want to do that anyway?

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Getting Over the Need to be a Victim

Take another look at the title for today’s post.  Because it offers a lot of insight into what the real issue is.

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