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Archive for January, 2009

Creating the Vacuum

So Hanaa commented on the last post on a fresh start, mentioning how helpful she found the CCCSS model:  What to Continue, what to Change, what to Complete, what to Start and what to STOP doing.  Amen to that, because that last item is part of practicing the vacuum law of prosperity.

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A Fresh Start

Well I’m back from Thailand, but someone forgot to tell my body.  I went to bed at 1 am, and woke up at 5 am, unable to go back to sleep.  But what an amazing trip!

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Being Real with Yourself

Yesterday I asked you to do some critical thinking on what you’re attracting in your life.    And look at your health, relationships, prosperity, work, and spiritual foundation.   So how did you do?

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What You’re Really Attracting

So I meant a guy in the softball league I’ll call “Jeremy.”  He’s 36 years old, and in his 36 winters, he’s seen a lot.  His father told his family that he didn’t love them, and walked out of their lives when Jeremy was about 12.  He’s been single for five years, since his last relationship ended.  Before that, his fiancé was killed in a car accident, a few weeks before their wedding.  He’s had cancer.  Twice.

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Liking Yourself

I have waited to post again, because there were so many powerful comments being posting on the last post about self-esteem.  Really some helpful stuff!  It’s great to see the community working together for the common good.

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Resolving Low Self-Esteem

Ari posed the question of how someone with worthiness and low self-esteem issues gets better.

I wish I knew.

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Selfishness and Love

In the post “Selfishness In (or Versus) Relationships,” I mentioned that you fall in love with someone because they bring happiness to your life.  Or in other words, for selfish reasons.   Zhannur wants to know if that means you are simply looking for a happy experience with a person, and “looking to suck the joy, life and energy from that person?”

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Don’t Be an Idiot!

Well we’ve been talking about books a lot lately, and you guys have come up with some great ones that have impacted your life.  Now there’s a new one out that you should know about.

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The Books That Molded my Life

Quite a few of you have asked for book recommendations, for helping recognize negative programming, build better habits or develop more prosperity consciousness.  This is a fun subject; one that I love to visit often.  So here’s my list of the top ten most influential books in my life.  (So far.)

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Selfishness In (or Versus) Relationships

I believe a sane person accepts him or herself, and is comfortable in his or her own skin.  And they are also comfortable with being selfish, and ensuring that their own needs are met.  They understand that if they sacrifice themselves for others, they will diminish and degrade themselves, and ultimately be of use to no one.

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